Keeping It Real With You: Though Humans Have Ghosted, Christ Jesus Never Will

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My hopes are the content is helpful to you in some way.

A Little About Me On This Subject

Up until recently I felt inadequate and the lyrics in the video below is accurate how I use to feel. But these last couple weeks God has shown me that I may be like a ghost around certain people in this world. I can always rest assure that Christ Jesus, will never ghost me.

Real Talk With Nico,

If any of you reading this post has gone or is going through the troubles of feeling like an ghost around others I would like to encourage you even though it will be hard to tackle changing the perspective within your mind. I say this because you are not a ghost it is truly that others that treat you like a ghost suffer with felling worthless so they cannot see worth in others around them for they cannot see it first within themselves. This statement is coming from a writer that has spent all my life feeling like a ghost around others.

Once I changed my surroundings within my mind I begin to see differently. Joyce Meyer’s wrote a book about the battlefield being within the mind. So, to be able to have the upper hand you got to invite Jesus into your life I say this because you can not complete this very hard task on your own. For many years I thought I could and at times things seem to be working out! until I got hit by the curve ball I didn’t see coming my way, then I was right back to struggling with feeling like an inadequate ghost all over again and I bet many reading this post can relate.

The First Step To Change The Minds Perspective!

This post is part of the real talk series of posts and the reason is because you got to be real (💯) with yourself and your feelings you cannot keep stuffing them down deep within… Because at some point something is going to trigger those feelings and they are going to hit you ten fold and you are going to feel like that inadequate ghost again I am speaking from many years of first hand experience.

To Change Your Mind Perspective You Got To Focus On Jesus!

Truly you are not worthless, You are Treasure before the Throne of God, you have to be willing to change your mind perspective to be begin to believe such, It has taken me a year now. I mentioned in the beginning of this post the change won’t be easy but it will be worth it for if you are will to have a Jesus part of the journey you will begin to see from the perspective of Daddy God’s eye’s. God doesn’t make junk and so we shouldn’t allow others to treat us like junk by allowing there words and actions to keep festering rent free within our minds.

Final Words From Nico,

I have learned this last year that truly it is ourselves that keeps that inadequate ghost feeling within, when we don’t approach our feelings but instead store those bad feelings within this cause us to become our own assassins and no one defeats each of us better than ourselves. We all have to accept this truth about each of us, if we want to be able to take ownership so that the first phase of change can begin.

Thank you for taking the time to read this entry on S.o.H I tried and will continue to try my best to keep it real (💯) because there is unfortunately many snake oil providers out there meaning “Fake Christians” If we’re going to be a servant for Christ Jesus then we got to strive to keep it real like Paul did in the bible because Paul was being an imitator of Christ Jesus, Please feel free to add to this subject in the comment section. Below you will also find scripture that the Holy Spirit directed me to on this subject matter.

Scripture Related To This Subject

Note From Nico, Scripture shared here is ESV format (English Standard Version)

  • Deuteronomy 31:6
    • Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the Lord your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.”
  • Psalm 27:10
    • For my father and my mother have forsaken me, but the Lord will take me in.
  • John 14:18
    • “I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you.
  • Philippians 4:6-7
    • Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.


Abba (Father) Thank you for showing me how to rewrite the mind like Romans 12:2 describes Lord, my request before you Father (Abba) is that the Holy Spirit will help others wake up and realize they don’t have to continue living life while feeling like a ghost around others. Lord, My request is that the Holy Spirit reaches the ears that want to hear and that they hear the message of Love & Mercy from Heaven. Amen!

Romans 12:2
English Standard Version
2 Do not be conformed to this world,[a] but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

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God Bless!

Nico, (Lead Author)

1 Comment

  1. I adore Joyce Meyer! During periods of feeling down, I watch her on YouTube and she gets me back on track. She’s very uplifting and so, so funny. 😀

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